Personal Reflections: Barbara A. Simmons, JD/Esq
Think on these things:
Control your own destiny or someone else will. -- Jack Welch (former CEO, General Electric)
They cannot take away our self-respect if we do not give it to them. -- Mahatma Gandhi
The most reliable way to predict the future is to create it. -- Abrahm Lincoln
In practicing Kujichagulia, it is my choice not to refer to myself as a “minority.” Recently I was in a meeting with the head of a black organization who proudly used the term “minority” in referencing us. “After all, we actually are the minority in numbers” this person stated. Personally, I stopped referring to us as “minorities” in the 1970’s.
At that time, I was a member of the National Association of Black Social Workers. Tony Brown (Tony Brown’s Journal) told us to stop referring to ourselves as “minorities.” Labels do matter. We do not need to program ourselves to think we’re less than anyone else. Furthermore, I have never heard a certain “ethnic” group in this country which is less than 3% (we’re reported to be at least 13%) refer to itself as a minority. Most people don’t know that group is so few in numbers.
It is a fact that people of color are the majority on the earth. While some of us are “unaware,” non-melanated persons know that THEY are the minority on the earth and quickly becoming even moreso. While some would like to pretend that this country is the center of the earth, the powers that be know that a global view is required in order to be prepared for the future. Even this country where urban schools exist, the oxymoron term “majority minority” is often used where black students outnumber others. According to the United Nations by 2050, 1 in every 4 persons on the earth will be African!
Let us define and name ourselves as a people who value who and what we are. This day forward, let us commit to practice Kujichagulia (Self-Determination). I ask four things of you.
My first is that you join me in my commitment not to refer to our people as “minorities.” Let us practice Self-determination and see ourselves as the important reflection of our Creator—IF we will act in accordance with that belief.
On a personal note, we must be prepared to stand firm on our positions. I received a letter from the KKK after a nearly full page story on Kwanzaa appeared in a Cleveland Plain Dealer article. It featured a photo of me and my son in African clothing celebrating Kwanzaa. The handwritten letter stated, “go back to Africa.” This was in the early 1980s. Today, those forces are not always wearing a hood. “God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind.” 2Timothy 1:7.
My second ask is that you take some quiet time to think about what you want to achieve in 2026. Pick 3 things. Commit to feeding your spirit with positive self affirmations. Create 3 affirmations that reflect self determination and repeat them 3 times everyday for at least 40 days. For example. “I was created to succeed.” “I have a healthy love for myself.” “I love my people.” “I will honor God’s plan for my life.” [If I don’t know what that is, I will pray and relentlessly seek to learn what it is.]
Nothing we are dealing is as difficult as what our ancestors endured. NEVER, NEVER, NEVER GIVE UP.
“The LORD is my light and my salvation; Whom shall I fear? The LORD is the stronghold of my life; of whom shall I be afraid.” Psalm 27:1.
It is not a mistake that you are alive in this period of history and on this day. Go forth and conquer.
Third ask, LEARN ALL 3 VERSES OF “LIFT EVERY VOICE AND SING.” Give close attention to “keep us forever in the path, we pray. Lest our feet stray from the places, our God, where we met Thee. Lest, our hearts drunk with the wine of the world, we forget Thee….”
Fourth ask, Create a positive playlist and every day, listen to at least one positive piece of music.
If we all do this, when we come together next year, we can celebrate having lived a life which exemplifies Kujichagulia (Self-Determination) in action.
Peace and love.
Some December Observations
December 1 is World AIDS Day
December 3 is International Day of Persons with Disabilities
Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)—mental health related to shorter daylight hours and winter blues