October Thoughts and Themes

Virtue of the Month: Discernment
Source: Virtues Matter

Discernment is accessing the wisdom of our intuition to discover what is essential and true. Detaching from our desire to rush decisions, we seek to distinguish the true from the false, the facts from our assumptions, and then choose the best path. Reflecting in silence creates space for our deepest perceptions. With contemplative vigilance, we open ourselves to clarity. We listen deeply for the true questions, trusting that the answer will unfold and reveal itself when the time is right. We become alert to the messages that come in subtle and surprising ways. We hold decisions lightly until the truth emerges. Discernment empowers us to be guided by Grace.

The Practice of Discernment

I trust my inner vision.

I seek full information.

I release the pressure to decide by determination alone.

I take time for reflection and prayer.

I hone my intuition.

I am alert to the signs placed in my path.

I am open to revelation.

Affirmation

I am thankful for the gift of Discernment. It leads me to the truth.

Personal Reflection: David O. Fakunle, Ph.D.

October is a very special month for me because it is when three important women in my life celebrate their birthdays: my mother Deborah (October 8th), my auntie Funso (October 14th), and my wife Doralee (October 20th). From all three I have and continue to experience many lessons, including the lesson of discernment. It is critical in life that we learn as much of the story as possible because it catalyzes us to understand and embrace a fuller truth. It is something we can handle, and in the end, despite feelings to the contrary, we are better for it. I encourage everyone to pursue their truths, and consider opportunities where it can and should coexist with the truths of others. When space is made for perspectives, including the ones we do not like (and rightfully so), then we as a collective can see the world for what it really is…and see how the world can be better for everyone. We can and should be open to revelation: through it, we can be forever changed.

Health Education

October is Breast Cancer Awareness month, a disease that affects many families across the world, including my own. It is the most diagnosed form of cancer for women in the U.S. and the second leading cause of cancer death (Mass General Brigham, 2024). Specifically, Black women are more likely to be diagnosed later in breast cancer progression, and if diagnosed at all, often have more aggressive forms of breast cancer and are more likely to die from breast cancer than comparable groups. Therefore, early screening is the best prevention. While mammograms are recommended starting at age 40, Black women are encouraged to consider screenings, including self-exams, at an earlier age due to the disparities.